Great advice! And you did the right thing by telling your daughter that adults are not perfect and they make mistakes, too. I always thought I wanted kids until recently. I realized I didn’t even know why I wanted kids and now I’m in a better position to really think about it. My mom has been trying to convince me to have one and promised that she will help raise the kid so I don’t have to worry about it and still do my thing. “Just have it and worry about the rest later.” she said. In my opinion, thats’s a pretty shitty way to prepare for parenthood, too! You were right about how having kids is not about us- it’s about them! You sound like a great mother to me :)