I don’t know if “No, I don’t find you attractive” would be more effective in shutting these men down. The whole “I’m married” response still implies that “I belong to another man so you better back off.” What about women who are actually not married but still not interested in these men? We shouldn’t have to pretend to be married to shut them down. We should say the truth — if you’re being aggressive about a woman rejecting you, you deserve to know the harsh truth that you’re not desired. Great piece! Just reading this now.