Julia you’re an inspiration to me! I find it hard to be consistent with working out — I’ve never been able to build any kind of abs and I admire people like you who put in the hard work and effort. Honestly dating is so difficult at any age, but especially for older women. I think it’s unfortunate that some men find all kinds of reasons to not like women who are super motivated, in shape and older. The scale has never tipped in favor of women because men who are older can get women much younger but it’s harder for older women to date younger men (or men of any age at all). You have every right to prefer athletic men to those who are not attractive to you physically. People need to stop attacking others’ dating preferences! And yes, only give your time up those who are worth it.

Cheers to holding out for the right person and set our own worth right!