So true! I especially like the categories you summarized. I have been through almost all of these categories and now I think I just need to get out of the last one — “not believing in my ability to find a decent man and that he indeed exists”. Having had difficulties finding quality relationships my entire life, I have had to adjust my mindset so many times to take my mind off of disappointing results. But I recently started to do reflections again and I realized I subconsciously did not believe in finding that right person. I have never once had doubt about my career success (even though I’m still working towards it) — why not apply the same mindset to relationships?