Thanks for sharing your experience! I was in the same mindset as you — baby-crazed in my mid-twenties and nonchalant to them in my late twenties. Of course, that also has to do that currently I have no suitable partner to raise one with. It is still a mystery to me why I felt so maternal all my life and all of a sudden I stopped feeling that way. I think it has a lot to do with our circumstances and personality. I’m fiercely independent and extremely ambitious in my career — earlier this year I realized that there is still so much I haven’t achieved and I want to achieve them so badly. None of that has anything to do with a baby. In fact, having a baby would impede on the momentum of me achieving these goals. Then I also witness the realities of raising children — they’re not just cute little angels. They come with tremendous amount of work and responsibilities. The other day I was woken up by a fire alarm at 3am and couldn’t go back to sleep for hours. The next day I felt like hell — then it hits me — if I can’t even stand this feeling, how would I feel being constantly sleep-deprived because of a baby? I was planning to freeze my eggs but now I don’t plan to anymore. Whatever happens happens. I will glad take life as it comes!