This is such a refreshing perspective! I seriously love your work, Bonnie. I tend to hesitate whether or not to write this as well because I don’t want to come across as super conservative but on the other hand I know I’m not looking for casual sex. I also know that whether or not I write it, it makes little to no difference. But I never would’ve thought so many women who wrote this are actually open to the very thing they said they oppose! I guess men and women are both contradictory in different ways. I’ve met a guy who kept telling me he wants children and marriage on our first date only to suggest casual sex immediately after. See who’s confused now. Look forward to reading your next article!